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  • Kelly Fryer (MDiv, MTh) is a Renewable Organization consultant, trainer and coach, and a managing partner of A Renewal Enterprise, Inc.

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November 21, 2008

Another Invitation

For anybody who missed the announcement (and is wondering where The F Word has been!), here's a last reminder that I'm transferring my energy over to the blog at A Renewal Enterprise, Inc. Today's post is called 3 Maligned Mice and offers a lesson to be learned from Plane-gate...the Big 3's unimaginably stupid decision to fly in 3 separate private jets from Detroit to D.C. yesterday. I'd love to have you visit me over at A.R.E. once in awhile and/or sign up to get regular blog updates. There's lots of work to be done in our congregations, judicatories, denominations --- and all the organizations we care about, for that matter. And lots that can be done to bring renewability - vitality, sustainability, purposefulness - to our life together. See you around.

November 04, 2008

Getting Busy

I am starting a Sabbatical from the F-word today. I’m not sure how long it’ll last. But I’ve got some other things I really need to do. And before I head off to other projects, I want to thank you for engaging this conversation with me. 


It might seem odd to begin this sabbatical even before the final results of today’s historic election are recorded. After all, I started this blog at the beginning of this current campaign season, out of a deep sense of frustration with the way the too-timid voice of mainstream and progressive Christianity has been drowned out by the shrill and strident bellowing of the Radical Christian Right in our churches, our politics, our culture, and our common life. But one of the exciting things that has happened over these past couple of years is that many of us seem to have found our voice again. I disagree with those who say that a great disservice has been done to either our public or our church life by the prominent role religion has played in this campaign. On the contrary, this campaign season has exploded the myth that there is “a” Christian voice or “a” Christian way to vote. As a result, I believe that for the most part, for most candidates and most voters after this election, religion will begin to play a less “showboaty” role in American politics; just possibly that will give us the opportunity for much richer, healthier conversations about what we believe and why and what difference it makes it our own personal lives but also in the way we approach our life together. And that, I believe, would be a very good thing. 

We have a long way to go, of course. One obvious next step is to open up the religious conversation to people of all faith traditions. Being a “Muslim” (or just having a name that sounds like you might be) shouldn’t be something your opponents get to use to scare people with. 

My own biggest concern, though, is that mainstream and progressive Christians will blow this opportunity. 

For the first time in decades, people know we’re here. Many of them are open to – hungry for! – the good news we have to bring. Some of them may even come looking for us.

I want to know that what they find is healthy, vibrant, and real. 

I want to see mainstream and progressive congregations across the country on fire with the good news of God’s radical and unconditional love. 

I want us to be willing to do whatever it takes – change whatever needs changing in the way we do life together – for the sake of getting the word out that, in Christ, everything is new. 

At the heart of our message, as mainstream and progressive Christians is that, because of Jesus Christ, all the walls that we have built to separate us from each other and from God are gone. We might still live like they’re there, but they are nothing more than a figment of our imagination. In Christ, God has knocked those walls down – and erased all the lines – that separate us. And we are free – completely and totally free! – to live like that is true. 

This good news has come to us. God’s plan is to get that good news out through us to a world that desperately needs to hear it. That is our call. 

And this is our time. 

That’s why I’m taking a break from writing The F-Word. My priority these days is helping people and the organizations they love – especially mainstream and progressive churches – actually do the thing God is calling them to do with purpose and passion. That’s what we’re up to over at A Renewal Enterprise. That’s why I’m getting my hands dirty trying to figure out how to help a new kind of ministry emerge from an old one right here in my own neighborhood. 

Frankly, I am just really antsy these days. Too antsy to just write about how things should be different. I’m feeling the need to actually make some things happen

So, if you’re ever in the south loop on a Sunday morning, come visit me in person. And if you want help in your own efforts to do something that matters – in your personal or professional life, in your workplace, or in your church – come visit me at A Renewal Enterprise. Join us online during one of our monthly webinars. Subscribe to the A.R.E. blog and jump into the conversation. Share what you know and what you’re learning. Ask us about coaching. Invite us to come work with your church. Tell us how we can be helpful.

Over the next few months, I’ll be compiling the best of the F-Word in a book – so, if you’ve been a subscriber, you may want to keep the feed live for awhile. I’ll let you know the book is ready by posting it here. And, who knows, maybe I’ll be back at some point. 

But, for now, let's get busy.

October 24, 2008

My Testimony, My Vote

Christian leaders on the far right have been supporting conservative, mostly Republican candidates for decades. At her Florida parish a few weeks ago, my mom said they were all handed fliers during Mass with instructions from the diocese about how to vote on various issues (read here "candidates").

Well, this video message from Bart Campolo popped up in my inbox this morning:

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October 22, 2008

God On The Bus

The headlines at the UK-based online newsletter Ekklesia today led to this story:

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October 17, 2008

A Bit Of A Breather

In the middle of a nasty campaign, some laughter. A bit of a breather. A sign of health.

October 14, 2008

Make Something Good

Chicago-based religion writer, Cathleen Falsani, notes that "we've reached the ever-vicious 'culture wars' phase of the presidential election, with, essentially, four Christian candidates attempting to out-Jesus one another and otherwise impugn one another's character (moral and otherwise) as a threat to our culture and the soul of the nation." 

In response, she is inviting Christians today to "...create something. Something small. Something huge. Something good. Put it out there. Make culture, rather than simply complaining or consuming it. Become the poet who changes the world."


And worth thinking about.

October 09, 2008

A Bridge To Somewhere

In a blatant and desperate attempt to build Obama his own bridge-to-nowhere, John McCain has been accusing the senator from Illinois with asking for $3 million in federal funds to buy an "overhead projector" for "a planetarium" in "Chicago." He did this again during the so-called "town hall" on Tuesday night. The way McCain said it was so drenched in mockery and disdain, he made me wonder:

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October 08, 2008

Would Pastor Pitbull Be Ok?

An interesting and inevitable outcome of the Sarah Palin nomination? Trouble in the ranks of conservative Christian denominations who are being called out for hypocrisy over the issue of women's ordination. 

This is from a current article in the Christian Century

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October 06, 2008

Swing Low Sweet Stanley

OK, so maybe a Cubbie appearance in the playoffs didn't signal a new day dawning. But this might. This is a radio ad running in the red (but swinging) state of Virginia featuring Ralph Stanley who, according to folo is "the survivor of the Stanley Brothers, one of the few remaining figures of the first generation of bluegrass musicians. He’s from the part of the mountains the Carter Family came from..." In other words, he's a good old boy from Appalachia. And he's endorsing Barack Obama as "the change we need."   


Is this a sign that the politics of division and fear --- where candidates win because they promise to protect "us" from "them" --- are in the last days?? Could it be that we are seeing the beginning of a "we" era, in which we all know that we need each other to figure out solutions to the problems we face? 

Hmmm...I'm enough of a cynic (and a Lutheran) to think: Probably not. People are dumb. There's no getting around it. And until the kingdom comes in all its glory, we'll keep being dumb.

But it's a very hopeful sign.


Thanks to my friend Sandra - who hails from Appalachia, herself - for pointing me this ad. The blue hills have to be a little brighter these days.

October 01, 2008

Woo Hoo!

So I'll be cheering like a crazy person for the Cubs this October, even if they end up in a final show down with the southsiders --- but, for the moment, I'm loving the both/and of this baseball season. 


Hell is getting colder by the minute. 

Which makes you wonder: If this, what other wild and wacky dreams might one day come true?? 

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