Dance With The Stars

A new season of Dancing with the Stars kicked off this week with one of my favorite actresses, Marlee Matlin, taking the dance floor. She received one of the highest scores of the night on her first spin around the floor which is remarkable actually, as Matlin is profoundly deaf. I turned on the tv last night just to cheer her on. I love that she continues to push the public in its understanding about what people with a variety of disabilities can not only handle, but accomplish with skill, grace, passion and dedication.

It seems to me, as A.R.E. works with a variety of people and organizations, that watching Ms. Matlin can teach us a few things.

First, you don't have to know everything yourself in order to be successful. Like Matlin, who can't even hear the music she's being asked to dance to, you may not be able to see, hear, or grab a hold of things that would make you feel confident. Matlin has to trust her dance partner to show her the way. You, too, may have to trust that someone else can lead you.

Second, the only way to do the really hard things is to "feel it in your heart." That's how Matlin described her ability to dance. Too many of us want all the "t's" crossed before we make a move. But if you can already see, prove, or guarantee success before you get started, the thing you're doing is probably too easy! It might make us more comfortable, but it won't necessarily be good or right. Doing the hard and important things usually means trusting your heart.

And finally, have fun. Smile. Take a risk. You just might surprise yourself and others, daring them to go where they have not ever dared to go before. As for me I just might lace up those dance shoes!